The Swingers Attic

Getting the “Real Seal” on LL

by on Mar.20, 2011, under Newbie Help

Question:
I joined lifestyle lounge through the link here on your site so maybe you made some money off me, and LL seems really cool, but to see everything you have to be real sealed.
My wife and I are just checking things out and aren’t actually swingers yet so we don’t know anybody to real seal us. How do a couple of newbies get real sealed?

Answer:
By Miranda-
I will tell you that the way to get real sealed on LL is to start networking and start meeting people. 
Please remember just because you and your wife haven’t actually made the pact  to start swinging doesn’t mean you shouldn’t get out there go to a meet and greet or make a date with a couple for coffee or lunch.  We’re not so horny of a breed that we’ll just jump your bones in a parking lot…unless you want us to! 
On LL you need a real sealed couple to do the same for you and just meeting up and going to coffee lets the couple know, “Hey these are real people!”  You don’t actually have to have real sex to receive a real seal.  I wish you nothing but goodness if you decide to actually participate in the lifestyle and thank you so very much for the question.

Answer:
By Aarron-
The Lifestyle Lounge Real Seal system is set up to show that people are really who they say they are.
A person who is just interested in knowing more about swinging and not ready to actually dive in can easily get real sealed.
All you have to do is meet some people who will real seal you.
The best way to do that is to go to meet n greets if you are not sure about actually partaking in swinging activities.
Meet n greets are usually held at restaurants or bars and offer a no pressure way to meet others in the lifestyle.
It’s pretty much just a bunch of people with a common interest getting together to chat.
To find these events in your area just go to the “Groups” section of the site and search for your general area or cities that are close to you.
For example… we live in WA so belong to groups that are Seattle based, Tacoma based, NW based, and even Portland based.
Once you are in these groups just read the posts or wait for group admins to send event postings to your inbox.
Meet n greats (unlike parties) are almost open to anyone.
Go to these parties and socialize.
Be honest and let people know you are in the “checking it out phase.”
If the meet n greet was through an LL group it will most likely be about a third LL members and a few people who are friends of those people.
You have now met people who will vouch that you are real by giving you a real seal.
Be warned though that if you are listed as a couple you need attend the meet n great as a couple if you expect to be real sealed.
If just one of you goes to the meet n great (Many singles get into the swinging scene through these small gatherings) people won’t wish to real seal you as a couple.
There are many other ways to meet people on LL beside the one I just suggested, but that is the most low pressure one I think.

Also, just because you mentioned it… We have links to Lifestyle Lounge here on the Swingers Attic simply because we like the site and use it.
We get no money if you join via our links to the site.

:, , , ,

Leave a Reply


9 + 3 =

swingers attic