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Bend Over Beginner

by on Sep.07, 2011, under Spice

Ready for some pegging? Want to try out some anal loving, but have a fear of large objects?
Then this is going to be right up your alley.
I recently received the Bend Over Beginner set from Babeland as a product to review.

I got the Bend Over Beginner Strap On Set

I requested this set even though I already own the exact same harness that is included with the set.
That alone should tell you what I think of the harness.
It is soft, easy to put on, girly, and cute (as far as harnesses go) and can be tossed in the washing machine for easy cleaning.
It is very non-intimidating, and does the job well.
I also have a couple dozen different bullet vibes in various sizes and styles.
(I will get back to this bullet in a bit)
I did not have the two small Tantus dildos that come with this set, and I wanted them.
The reason I wanted them was simple… for pegging.
For those not in the know on the term pegging, it is a sexual practice in which a woman penetrates a man’s anus with a strap-on dildo.
(Wikipedia’s page on Pegging)
I also thought these two small dildos would be a great way to get a couple of my girlfriends who are not so hip on anal to give it a try.
Look at this dildo and harness.
Who could be afraid of that?

Harness with small dildo and long bullet vibe

I am showing the smallest of the two dildos in the picture above, along with the harness and included bullet vibe.
The dildo is not much bigger than a mans large finger. 7/8″x4 1/2″ to be specific.
A dildo this size is perfect for use with a partner that is worried about anal sex.
Tantus makes great dildos. These two are both made with 100% silicone so can be boiled between uses or cleaned with a 10% bleach solution.
As you all know (if you read my reviews on any regular basis) I love toys that can be safely shared with multiple people, and the ability to boil or clean with bleach makes these dildos fit the bill.

In this next picture you can see how the harness sits.

Harness view from front with smallest dildo

I mostly included these two pictures so you can get a better idea of the size of the small dildo, and so you can see how the wireless mini vibe is placed into the harness.
The bullet vibe stays in place and gives vibration to the person wearing the harness, but if you push in deep, and grind, rather than thrust… the person getting the pleasures of the dildo will also feel some vibrations.

Side view of harness and dildo

The larger dildo is still a very small dildo.
You can see the size difference, but it still measures just 1 1/2″x5 1/2″
Remember that this is a beginners kit.
The dildos are supposed to be small and smooth.

what you get in the bend over beginner kit

Eventually you will want a larger dildo. Worry not about them fitting with the harness system.
Those snaps you see on the front allow for easy changing of O rings, making this harness very versatile.
It will not easily support very large/heavy dildos.
If you are looking at a beginners set though, I very much doubt you will be having an issue with that for a long time.

Get a bend over beginner kit and get pegging

Bend Over Beginner Kit at Babeland

Rundown of what you get in the set:
1) A purple, velvety, strap-on harness that is adjustable for extreme comfort (fitting hips up to 60″) that has a great little pouch to put a bullet vibe in for your pleasure.
2) A silver, wireless mini vibe that fits snugly into the pouch on the harness (batteries are included)
3) Two Tantus dildos made of silicone, that are non toxic, hypoallergenic, hygienic, aroma free, and can be boiled.
4) A lot of fun new pegging adventures.

Who do I recommend this product for?
Anyone who is interested in exploring anal strap-on play.
This is the perfect set to get the ball rolling.
My advice on first time use is to start with the smallest dildo.
You will want to switch up to the larger one in no time, but better to start slow to alleviate fears.
Use a lot of lube. Use what you think is the proper amount and then add more.
Make sure that it is not a silicone based lube. Silicone lubes can damage silicone dildos and cause you harm in the process. Use a thicker water based lube with these dildos.
Go slow on first penetration if your partner is nervous.
The best way is to let the receiving partner control first penetration by relaxing, and then pushing back against the dildo while you (the giving partner) steady the dildo with your hand.
Never rush!

My experience with it so far:
I have fulfilled a male friends fantasy of being pegged.
I could have used a larger dildo, but as I mentioned before… better safe than sorry.

My next planned use is to DP a girlfriend of mine.
I get to use the strap-on to take her from behind while Aarron takes her from in front.
This is something all three of us are excited about. None of us has experienced a FFM threesome in that way before.

If you want to fulfill those pegging fantasies, or if a FFM DP sounds fun to you then this is a great set to start with.
You can get the Bend Over Beginner Kit at Babeland!

Thank you to Babeland for sending me such a great product to review.

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4 Comments for this entry

  • WeekBiWeek

    We love this kit! We got this years ago, as our start to pegging, and still use the dildos from it as our default anal dildos today. We still have the harness, too, though got something different made of leather that I find much sturdier.

  • Swingers Attic

    It is a great kit, and the dildos are wonderful.
    We have a few different harnesses ourselves, and most are sturdier leather types. This one isn’t very good with heavier dildos at all.
    The visuals, ease of cleaning, and not intimidating factor make this a favorite to take with for times a person has no strap-on experience though. Especially women who are just starting to dabble in the swing scene seem to appreciate it.

  • Karen Blue

    We got this set too! It was actually our first harness but I got rid of the dildos it came with…I use big boys like the Captain in it now!

  • Swingers Attic

    The captain is more to my liking too, but when it comes to a first time pegging I think it would scare a lot of guys into tightening up if they went for it at all. Lol
    Same thing for first time anal with a girlfriend. Better to leave them asking for more than have them ask for less.

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