Swingers Blogs with personalÂ experiencesÂ -
The Swingers Attic has become a very popular resource site for people interested in the swinging lifestyle.
We have found it isn’t just about questions and answers, but also people who are just curious about or contemplating non-monogamy come here to get a glimpse into the lifestyle and often to understand the possible pitfalls.
We love that you read our Q & A and are happy that it has become such a popular resource, but because of our format we are for the most part discussing problems, worries, misunderstandings, and other negative type aspects of the lifestyle. In short… it doesn’t show the whole picture.
There are endless amounts of websites devoted to swinging, polyamory, and other forms of non-monogamy on the web, but very few personal accounts.
Here we shall attempt to keep a list of active blogs with personal experiences of the swinging lifestyle and closely related subjects here on this page.
The List: (in no particular order)
Sexual adventures of a married womanÂ - This blog is of the type I call “sexy journals,” and covers the bloggers fantasies, fetishes, previousÂ liaisons, and follows her current sexual adventures as well. NSFW images are sometimes included with posts.
Sex BabbleÂ - This blog is all about sex and sexiness. It is not a swinger specific blog at all, but the blogger (Lola) does share her swinging lifestyle adventures on the blog along with anything else she feels like talking about.
Our Open Marriage AdventuresÂ - Though this blog isn’t updated very often it is still a wonderful blog that documents the bloggers (a couple) journey into and through the world of non-monogamy. The experiences, thoughts, and both good and not so wonderful aspects of their journey are included.
Being BellaÂ - The blog of a 30-something mom, wife and lover, trying out the open marriage/swinging thing with her husband.
Confessions of a Swinger’s WifeÂ - This blogs primary focus is swinging and is written from a wife’s perspective. It is a pretty new blog however with the first post being dated May 28, 2011.
Cooper’s BlogÂ – A personal blog section from Cooper Beckett who is the main man over at Life on the Swingset which is a general Lifestyle Everything sort of site that covers all sorts of alternative lifestyles subject matter.
Diary of a swinging housewifeÂ - The blog of a self described hotwife, cougar who has lots of sex and writes about it.
Erotic Wet AtomicÂ - There is very little of personal experiences related particularly to swinging on this blog, but the entire blog comes from an exploratory, non-monogamous, sexually liberal mindset. There is a lot of subject matter on swinging and almost anything else you can imagine of a sexual nature.
Fantasy PlanÂ - The blog of a Toronto couple who have decided that they can achieve emotional exclusivity with sexual variety. Sporadically updated.
HORNYNECOUPLEÂ – A couple explores their kinky side and shares it via their blog. This blog is more about kink and dominance than non-monogamy, but it is there. Updates have been scarce this year, but the blog goes back to 2009.
Hotwifing ExposedÂ - The thoughts and reports of a couple in the UK as they explore the hotwifing lifestyle. Mostly short and sporadic posting on this blog, and contains some explicit images.
Househo’s Joy Fuck ClubÂ - Subtitled “an on going adventure in an Open Marriage,” this blog isn’t really about swinging per se, but fits the bill nonetheless. Here you will find an as it happens account of a woman in an open marriage, with not just the sexual experiences, but also thoughts, ups and downs, and a good amount of humor in relation to living such a lifestyle.
Hubman’s HangoutÂ - This is not a swing lifestyle specific blog, but does cover the bloggers personal swingers lifestyle experiences and thoughts on related subjects.
Kissin Blue KarenÂ - The blog of a swinging gal from Florida that covers her experiences in the lifestyle and also other sex related things. This site includes a lot of sexual product reviews and sometimes explicit images.
LEARNING TO…Â - It used to say “Learning To Swing” – This blog is about the lifestyle and life in general with a big break from swinging in the middle and a new addition to the family.
Lusts of a JezebelÂ - A newer sex blog of a general nature that happens to have some swing lifestyle focused posts.
New York SwingersÂ - A couple exploring the New York Swingers Scene shares their adventures in a play by play style. You will also find viewpoints, and advice on swinging in general here.
Rebecca AmmonÂ - The site has a tag line that says “Conversations about Sex, Love, and Relationships.” It is a fitting tag line. Rebecca’s site covers all things sexual.
Red Region InfernoÂ - This is my own personal blog. It is not a lifestyle specific blog. It does however include posts about personal swinging adventures, and multiple other sex and lifestyle related things.
The Adventures of My Slutty WifeÂ - A husband blogs about his wife’s sexual exploits with great detail and photos of the action.
The Over Educated NymphoÂ - The blog of a bisexual single girl who self describes herself as a “vix” and a “Unicorn.” Not swingers specific, but experiences with the lifestyle are included.Â At the time of this posting The Over Educated Nympho has not been updated since July 2011, but I hope she starts posting again because it is a good blog.
We are the people your parents warned you aboutÂ - This is a long running blog from a couple who enjoys swinging and talking about swinging. Not updated a lot, but if you click around the archives you will find a ton of relevant posts about swinging adventures.
Week Bi WeekÂ -Â The thoughts of the Female half of a both-bisexual couple just getting into swinging.
This is a new blog with it’s first post dating back to only JUL 23, 2011. The posts are primarily a female perspective and cover both experiences and thoughts about sexuality, bisexuality, and the lifestyle.
The sites listed here didn’t exactly fit for one reason or another, or seem to be semi-retired, but came so close I thought that those who sought out swingers lifestyle blogs that shared personal experiences may still find them interesting.
A swinging Good TimeÂ - Subtitled “one married couples’ swinging adventures,” and I suppose that is what it is, but this blog has had a total of only 12 posts in it’s one year existence. Worth checking out and if it was updated more would certainly be listed up above.
Ivey LaneÂ - Not a swinging specific blog and it covers a ton of personal stuff, but swinging adventures are included if you hunt around. Not updated much anymore, but I hope she picks it up again sometime.
At Longing’s EndÂ - The blog of Mina and Sylvanus who have an open relationship. You will also find dominance and submission, and cooking recipes here.
Confessions of a Midwest Farmers DaughterÂ - This blog is a general sex blog, but does have a few swinging related posts. I have listed it in the ‘Mentions’ section simply because this blog only has 25 posts total.
Marriage, dating, and kinkÂ - A married woman blogs about her experiences in an open marriage. The first post is from March 5, 2011, but there is a still a lot to read.
Shared CindyÂ - Subtitled “The musings of a married man who has evolved into sharing his wonderful wife” A lot of interesting stuff on this blog going back to JULY 24, 2006. Sadly this blog has been short in updates this year.
Keeping an up to date list of blogs that share personal swinging experiences isn’t the easiest thing in the world because not many blogs of this sort last very long.
Please report any dead sites/blogs to us that you find on this list.
If you know of a great swingers blog that shares personal experiences (or related) you can let me know about it via our form. Please tell a bit about the blog and submit it under subject ‘Other’ so I am sure to get it.