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An extremely high sex drive after watching the wife

by on Jul.30, 2012, under Insecurities, Playing with others, Spice

Question:
My wife and I are new to the lifestyle, and while I admit that I’m a
bit of a voyeur, I’m also bi-curious and absolutely LOVE watching her
with another man. I’ve noticed that afterwards, my sex drive is
EXTREMELY high. No feelings of jealousy, just an insatiable desire.
She once said it was like I was trying to reclaim what was rightfully
mine. We have a great relationship with nothing held back, and I was
wondering if this was normal. Sex for us is 4 – 5 times a week on
average, yet afterwards it’s 4 – 5 times a day for a couple of days.

Answer:
By Miranda-
Hehehe!!! You sound like my husband after we have a great swim in the swingers pool. YES, it’s totally normal and not strange at all…I think. So you get super turned on with your wife after you play, well I thought that was the point? To have fun play dates to then go home and have more of intense and better sex. Call me crazy!
After we play we go home I fall asleep and early in the morning sometimes as early as 4, I awake to find Aarron ready to go for another round of sexy fun. Then we fuck, usually with Aarron telling me how sexy I was and how turned on he got by watching me, then drift back to sleep only to be woken up again a couple hours later with Aarron mentioning how hard his cock is still because of me, so an answer to your question….YES it is normal if your names are Miranda and Aarron! Hope I have helped or at least made you feel not alone. Thank you for writing in and remember to always tell your wife how damn sexy she is for sexing it up with other men in front of you.

Answer:
By Aarron-
It is super common to be very sexually amped up after a good swinging encounter.
When we first started playing in the lifestyle I had many conversations about exactly that with other people.
I too am a bit voyeuristic and enjoy watching my wife have fun so am right there with you.
Consider yourself a lucky guy because though it is very normal I have also met many people that because of jealousies, insecurities, feelings of shame, guilt, etc… they experience something that seems to be almost the polar opposite.

 

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